The sky is the limit. Your wedding day should be all about you and your intended celebrating your partnership cocooned in the love of your friends and family.
You should have meaningful rituals that are personal to you. The music and poetry that you choose should be an affirmation of your relationship and people should come away from the ceremony feeling that they have played a part in a very special day.
Bespoke vows, a panoply of charming and visually memorable ceremonial tributes; hand fasting, jumping the broom, unity candles and the like will all help you to really enjoy your day.